Mazano Okuenzanisa Upenyu Nezvimwe Zvidikanwi Zvevana
Kubva pakupedza koreji, ndakashanda mune dzimwe nzvimbo dzinogutsa uye dzakaoma dzakandibvumira kushandisa ruzivo rwangu uye unyanzvi uye ndisiya ndichinzwa sokuti ndakaita mupiro wakasiyana. Kushanda kunze kwemusha nekukurukura nevezera rako ndizvo zvinoda huropi hwangu uye izvo zvandinoda kurarama hupenyu huri pakati.
Imwe mwanasikana wangu paakaonekwa kuti ane autism , maonero angu ekuzadzisa uye zvinetso akachinja zvachose.
Kana ini nanny yangu ndaenda kumishonga, ndaizonyatsonzwisisa kuti ndingatakura sei kurapa kumba? Kana ndikaenda kumishonga pamwe naye, izvi zvinoreva kuti ndaifanira kusiya basa rangu uye kana ndikadaro, ndaikwanisa here kurapa kurapwa?
Vana vazhinji vane zvido zvakasiyana-siyana vane hupenyu hwehupenyu hwose, vachida vabereki kuti vave nyanzvi mumamiriro acho ezvinhu kusanganisira maitiro ekubata matambudziko emwana uye maitiro. Chirongwa chekurudzirwa kwevana vakawanda vane autism chinotanga maawa makumi maviri nemashanu pavhiki, kwete kureva basa, muviri uye kutaura. Mukuwedzera, vabereki vari kuwana kudya kunokanganisa vana vavo, vachida kudzidza mapeji chaiwo, kutenga zvingave zvisingambozivikanwi - vose vachiedza kushanda basa ravo uye kuenda kune vamwe vana vavo.
Vana vazhinji vane zvinodiwa zvakasiyana-siyana vanewo zvakawanda zvekugadzwa kwechiremba pamwe nekugara kuchipatara uye vanoda kuchengetwa kumba kubva kuchikoro kakawanda pane kuwanzoita vana.
Vabereki Vechido Chinokosha Vana Vanoramba Vasinganetseki
Chimwe chekuongorora muna 2009 chakawana kuti vanaamai vevechiri kuyaruka uye vanhu vakuru vane autism vanotambudzika zvakanyanya kufanana nekudzvinyirirwa kunorwa nehondo. Mukuwedzera, maamai ava vainetseka nekuneta kunowanzosangana nekuvhiringidzwa kwebasa uyewo vakashandisa nguva yakawanda yekutarisira kupfuura amai vemunhu vasina hurema.
Uku kushungurudzika kusingaperi kunoshandura mukutapudza kwemazuva ehupenyu hwemakore gumi nemana kusvika gumi nemaviri, zvichisiya vamwe vanamai vachishamiswa pamusoro pekuti ndiani achabatsira mwana wavo anodiwa (ren) pavanenge vaenda.
Kutsvakurudza kwakaratidza kana mwana wako ane ADHD, izvi zvinoguma nezvinetso zvakakura nemhuri uye zvekuroorana, kushungurudza ukama nevana-vana, kuderedzwa kwevabereki kubatsira uye zvakare zvakare, kushungurudzika.
Kuenzanisa Upenyu Nezvimwe Zvidikanwi Zvevana
- Mhuri / Shamwari inotsigirwa . Ndakanga ndine ruzivo kuti ndive nerutsigiro rwemhuri yangu iyo inobatsira kutarisira mwanasikana wangu apo ini ndinoshanda uye zvakare kana ndichida nguva nenguva neshamwari. Nguva dzakawanda, mumwe mubereki anofanira kusiya basa kuti atarisire zvavanoda vana, zvinoreva kuti anoshanda naye anowanzoshanda maawa akawanda kuti ave nechokwadi chokuti haasi kurasikirwa nebasa ravo. Izvi zvinogona kuwedzera kuderedza ukama. Kana iwe uri kunze kwehurumende uye usina mhuri / shamwari network inowanikwa kwauri, tapota tarisa neunharaunda yako yepakati nzvimbo kuti uone kana iwe uchikwanisa kubhadhara (mari yakagoverwa kubatsira vabereki pakubhadhara vatarisiri) uye nekuda kwezvirevo zvakatendeka .
- Ongorora nzira yako yemabasa . Ndakashandura mararamiro emabasa uye ikozvino ndiri kliniki homeopath, akazivikanwa CEASE muongorori uye anyanzvi. Zvose izvi zvakabatsira mwanasikana wangu, saka ndakatora zvidzidzo kubatsira vamwe vabereki kutsvaga mhinduro. Purogiramu yangu inobvumirana kuti igare nevabereki vane zvinodiwa zvinodiwa vana kuitira kuti tikwanise kusangana mumunhu kana Skype chero zuva revhiki. Basa iri rinochengetedza mwanasikana wangu mberi uye mukati. Zvandiri kuita zvinobatsira munhu wese, kusanganisira iye.
Taura nevanhu kuti vaone kana kune zvikomborero kana mapurogiramu chaiwo anopa kupa rubatsiro kuvabereki vevana vane zvinodiwa zvakakosha.
- Kurukurai nezvekusarudzwa kwebasa nemushandi wako . Zvinokwanisika here kushanda mamwe emaawa ako apo mwana wako ari murapi yekurapa? Ko maawa ako angashandura kutanga pakutanga kwezuva kuitira kuti iwe unokosha mumwe kana nhengo yemhuri inogona kutarisira mwana wako paunotanga basa? Iwe unogona here kutora musangano wekupedzisira husiku hunoti vamwe vanotya sechikamu chemaawa ekushanda? Ongorora basa ripi zvinhu rakanyatsogadzikana uye funga kufunga mazano kune waunoshandira.
- Misangano Yevanhu . Izvi zvinogona kuva zvakaoma nevana vanoda zvakasiyana, asi zvinogona kukubatsira kuwana rubatsiro uye kunyaradzwa. Iko kune mapoka anosangana vhiki nevhiki kana mwedzi uye kana usingagoni kuwana imwe, zviri nyore kutanga. Izvi zvinogona kukubatsira kuti uone kana kune dzimwe mishonga, vanodzidza zviri nani uye pamwe zvichida kuvimba kune vamwe vabereki vanogona kutengesa nguva-nguva yekugara kwevana vavo.
Chinokosha ndechokumbira rubatsiro. Sezvo tichida vabereki, tinova nyanzvi tichizvivimba pachedu kuti tibatsire vana vedu, zvisinei, kuongorora izvo zvaunoda kubatsira mwana wako kubudirira ndizvo zvinopedzisira kuva simba rekushanda pabasa uye kumba.
Zvidzidzo:
- http://www.abilitypath.org/love-laugh-live/stress-relationships/coping/articles/mothers-of-children-with-special-needs-and-combat-soldiers.html
- http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/insight-is-2020/201310/pity-the-parents-special-needs-children-part-one
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Nezve Sima Ash - Sima Ash of Healing 4 Mweya ndiyo kliniki / classical homeopath, GAPS Certified Practitioner uye chiremba chinoratidzira chiremba anoshandisa nzira yakasiyana-siyana inopayona naTinus Smits, MD inonzi CEASE therapy. Akave akabatanidzwa mukugadziriswa kuporesa mushure mekuona kuvandudzwa kunoshamisa mumwanasikana wake uyo akawanikwa ane autism ava nemakore matatu. Kuti uwane mamwe mashoko, tapota shanyira www.healing4soul.com. Iwe unogona kutevera Sima pa Facebook pa 'Cease Therapy California' kana kuti foni naye pa 949-916-9990.